Hey myself Aditya Prakash..Aaj mujhe apne dosto ki bahut tez yaad aa gyii.Socha kisi se baat kr lu,sath me pubg khel lu toh aise hi mai soch rha tha toh mere dimag me aya ki bachpan me hamare sbse jyada dost hote h aur jaise jaise apki umar bdhegi wese wese dost km hote jate h bachpan me sbse jyada dost hote h.Usme ek dost/bhai/support system/crime partner tha Ritik.Aksar mere ghar ata tha mere parents se bhi kaafi close tha….aur vo kaafi parent pleasing baat krta tha”nhi aunty jii ye glt h parents itta krte h hme bhi kuch krna chahiy”toh mai ek baar frustrate ho gya tha aise aur bhi dost the jo ghar aakr rhte the…Ek dusre trh ke dost the jo mere ghar ke niche se awaz lgate the “Aditya aa jaa”parents se bhi jyada lgao n sirf Aditya niche aaja bss aur by chance kbhii parents ne puch liy “Hann beta kya hua”toh darr jate the jaise chori krne aaye the aur pkde gye but now when i see these relationship in test of the time toh lgta h jaise vo sare log jo gate se awaz lgya krte the vo gayab h.Aur har vo insaan jo ghar me baithar khana khaya hum payala hum niwala rhe vo aaj bhii hamare life me hamari naapasandagi ke baad bhi pyar,dular, satkar aur apnepan se abhii bhi bne huye h toh mai kaafi socha ki aisa kyu hua ki vo dost chle gye aur abhii bhi bne huye h vo bhi toh dost the ye bhi toh dost h….mere mom ki bdi gandi habit thi koi bhi dost copy lene aya toh vo baat krne lgte “Hann hann beta aao kaise ho” mere ko gussa ata tha..Papa khte the “dosti kro toh ghar ki kro”toh maine bhi dosti bdhaya apne friends ke parents se interaction krne lga aur vo mere bhi parents jaise ho gye the.Ek baar mai apne friend Satish ke dad ke sath PTM me chla gya entry mil nhi rhi thi then uncle ne kaha mere chhote bhai ka beta h toh mujhe kaafi acha lga…Aur mujhe mere parents ka Agenda bhi kaafi mujhe acha lga ki jb hum ghar ki dosti krte h hum kisi dost ke ghar jakr baithenge ya mere friends aakr baithenge toh sense of responbility bdhta h kyuki hamare dost hme glt suggestion nhi denge kyuki humlog ne sath khaya h,kuch hoga then mere parents usse kah skte h “Beta apne aisa kyu kiya aap toh hmare sath khaye the” ya phir mere friends ke parents bhi bol skte h toh ek sense of responsibility aati h ghar ki dosti se. Aur ek english thoughts bhi h “Friends are the family you choose”. Bhai,Behan,parents hame mil jate h pr dosti hame khud bnana hota h hum khud choose krte h hume kiske sath uthna- baithna h.Ghar ki dosti me space nhi hotii,koi secret nhi hota h.
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